Last night’s Anxious Attachment meetup was a truly enriching experience. Thank you to everyone who attended and shared their thoughts, questions, and vulnerabilities. I’ve compiled some of the questions we didn’t get to fully explore during the event and provided answers below. These inquiries reflect deep introspection and a willingness to grow, and I hope my responses help you on your journey.
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In a world that constantly tells us to push, to strive, and to do more, there comes a point where the greatest act of strength is to stop trying. Yes, you heard me right: stop trying.
Read MoreAt the heart of BreakBox™ Coaching lies a philosophy forged through deep suffering, relentless exploration, and the courage to face the full spectrum of the human experience. It’s not just a process for healing—it’s a philosophy for transformation, where your pain becomes the catalyst for freedom, peace, and mastery of your life.
Read MoreGrowth is not always the radiant bloom we imagine. It’s not always the vibrant, upward momentum of life breaking through obstacles in a blaze of glory. Growth is often quieter, subtler—a deep descent into ourselves, where light and shadow intertwine in ways that challenge our understanding of who we are.
Read MoreHave you ever felt like no matter how hard you try to hold onto a relationship, it just seems to slip further away? Or perhaps you’re caught in cycles of overthinking, constantly worrying whether your partner truly loves you or will leave? This deep sense of unease often stems from anxious attachment—a pattern where we cling to others, seeking validation, love, and reassurance to feel safe.
Read MoreIn the world of healing and self-transformation, there’s a dangerous misconception: that diving straight into deep healing without laying a proper foundation will lead to lasting results. While it’s tempting to skip to the “breakthroughs,” neglecting the essential groundwork—like ego integration and shadow work—can do more harm than good. Without building trust within your internal systems, the ego won’t feel safe enough to surrender, and unresolved wounds will remain unintegrated, potentially leaving you feeling more fragmented than before.
Read MoreI grew up in a world where faith was the answer to everything. There was no space for doubt or questioning. My family didn’t trust doctors, believing instead in the promises of faith healing. As a pastor in a mega church that preached prosperity gospel, I taught others to rely solely on their faith to change their lives. Yet, behind my confident sermons, I felt an emptiness I couldn’t ignore. I was trapped—trapped in beliefs that denied reality, in a role I didn’t fully believe in, and in a life that felt increasingly inauthentic.
Read MoreFor most of my life, I believed that the path to success and fulfillment was paved by pleasing others. It started with my parents. I wanted to make them proud, to show them that their sacrifices and dreams for me were not in vain. I internalized their values and expectations, striving to become the version of myself they wanted to see. Success, I thought, would come if I could just make them happy.
Read MoreShadows—the hidden, disowned, and repressed aspects of our psyche—reappear in our lives for a purpose far greater than mere discomfort. Their resurfacing is an act of self-communication, a profound invitation to shine light on old wounds and see them from a higher, more conscious perspective. While encountering shadows can feel like a return to past pain, it’s essential to recognize that this is not about reliving trauma. Instead, it is about integrating those experiences into our current awareness, allowing the psyche to grow and evolve.
Read MoreThe holidays are often wrapped in glossy narratives of constant cheer, bustling togetherness, and magical moments. From movies to advertisements, we’re bombarded with images of perfect families, flawless dinners, and endless joy. While these cultural ideals may inspire some, they can also leave many of us feeling like we’re falling short.
Read MoreThe holidays are a time of joy, but they can also trigger feelings we’d rather avoid—stress, loneliness, or unresolved pain. To cope, many of us fall into familiar patterns of overindulgence, detachment, or overachievement. These behaviors may provide temporary relief, but they often leave us feeling empty and disconnected in the long run.
Read MoreThe holidays are a time of togetherness and celebration, but for those who have lost loved ones, this season can also feel like a magnifying glass on their absence. Memories flood in, traditions feel incomplete, and the joy around us can seem at odds with our grief.
Read MoreThe holidays are a time of giving, but for many, they also bring financial stress. The pressure to buy expensive gifts, host lavish meals, and create picture-perfect celebrations can feel overwhelming. But here’s the truth: meaningful holidays don’t have to break the bank.
Read MoreThe holidays are often portrayed as magical and flawless—a time when everything is supposed to come together perfectly. From meticulously set tables to exquisitely wrapped gifts, society feeds us an image of holiday perfection that’s almost impossible to attain.
Read MoreFor many, the holidays are a time of gathering, laughter, and love. But for others, they amplify feelings of loneliness and isolation. Whether due to physical distance, loss, or estranged relationships, the absence of togetherness can feel overwhelming in a season that seems to center on connection.
Read MoreThe holidays can be a time of joy, connection, and celebration—but for many, they also bring the challenges of navigating complex family dynamics. Old wounds resurface, unresolved conflicts bubble to the surface, and expectations to “keep the peace” can feel overwhelming. If you’ve ever found yourself walking into a family gathering with a mix of excitement and dread, you’re not alone.
Read MoreWhen Sarah first reached out to BreakBox Coaching, her life was paralyzed by anxiety. She couldn’t drive without debilitating fear, let alone imagine stepping onto an airplane. The simplest tasks felt monumental, and her anxiety rippled into her marriage, creating communication barriers and emotional distance. Sarah’s story isn’t unique in its struggles, but her transformation is a testament to the profound potential for growth when you embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and mastery with BreakBox Coaching.
Read MoreHave you ever looked at your life and felt like you were stuck on a treadmill? You’re moving, sure—but it’s exhausting, and you’re not getting anywhere. The same routines, frustrations, and cycles keep repeating, and no matter what you do, you can’t seem to break free.
Read MoreIn a world of surface-level attraction and fleeting connections, there’s a truth that resonates deep within the feminine heart: the longing for a man who embodies the dark masculine. Not “dark” in the sense of danger or toxicity, but “dark” as in depth—a man who has faced his shadows, conquered his inner demons, and emerged as a powerful, integrated being. This is the kind of man who doesn’t just show up; he transforms the space he’s in, grounding it with strength, vulnerability, and unshakable presence.
Read MoreMike Tyson’s journey from a ferocious boxer to a reflective, wounded warrior is a testament to the transformative power of introspection and healing. In his later years, Tyson has emerged as an archetype of the healer-warrior, someone who has faced the shadow within and embraced the challenge of integrating it. When he speaks of his ego and the rage it holds, his words resonate far beyond the ring. Tyson openly acknowledges that this rage is not something he desires but something he must release when the moment demands it. His reflections offer profound insights for anyone grappling with the inner battles of ego and self.
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