If you’ve ever felt the deep ache of anxious attachment, you’re familiar with the intense fear of abandonment, the overthinking, and the constant self-doubt that colors your relationships. You may feel that no matter how hard you try, you always seem to sabotage connections, only to blame yourself afterward. But what if I told you that this painful cycle isn’t a reflection of your worth, but instead a symptom of a deeper mechanism at play—what we call the Ego Protection Cycle?
Read MoreFalling in love only to realize months or even years later that the person you thought you were in love with isn’t who they seemed to be is more common than we might think. This experience, often described as being “blinded by love,” is frequently a sign of a deeper, more complicated issue: a trauma bond.
Read MoreIn today’s world of dating and relationships, there’s a lot of emphasis placed on "chasing" and "pursuing." The idea that one person should be the hunter and the other the prize creates a dynamic rooted in ego, attachment, and societal conditioning. It’s no wonder that this approach often leads to dissatisfaction, frustration, and relationships that feel hollow.
Read MorePeople-pleasing can feel like a noble trait—putting others first, being agreeable, and avoiding conflict. Yet, deep down, it’s exhausting. It often leaves you feeling unheard, unseen, and unfulfilled. If you’ve been in a cycle of making sure everyone else is happy, but still find yourself dissatisfied, it’s time to ask a powerful question: Am I living for others, or am I living for myself?
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